Observe child when a toy is removed or face-to-face play is abruptly stopped.
Introduce a rattle or interesting object for the child to see and hear. Shake a rattle or activate a toy that the infant likes. (He may vocalize, smile, or make more active body movements to indicate pleasure). After two or three activations remove the toy from the child’s view and wait. Watch for a reaction.
The infant’s facial expression may turn to a frown or the infant may vocalize with fussing sounds when the toy is removed. His body may also become quiet while waiting, then tense when the face play or action with the toy does not recur. This indicates the child’s growing exploration of emotions.
Stopping face-to-face play or removing a toy after several activations, allows the child to communicate that she misses the engagement. Read any movement or facial expression change as an indication that she misses the toy. Repeat the actions. Soon the child will learn that she can communicate her desires. Parents will also begin to read the baby’s change in facial expression and body language.
 North Carolina Department of Public Instruction, 2015
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