Observe the infant during daily routines when he is not being held. Observe the child when he becomes fussy.
Have an unfamiliar adult pick up the child to calm him. Then hand the child to the familiar adult.
The infant may not stop fussing with the stranger (may even cry harder), but calms quickly with the familiar adult.
Explain that calming with the familiar adult demonstrates the child’s growing trust and expectation that the adult will meet their needs.
 North Carolina Department of Public Instruction, 2015
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