List of Skills by Age
1-2 Months
2-4 Months
Responds differently to various family members
4-6 Months
Differentiates familiar and unfamiliar faces
6-8 Months
Calmed more easily by familiar adult
8-10 Months
10-12 Months
Moves away from the parent, but maintains eye contact
Recognizes friends and relatives seen frequently
12-15 Months
Enjoys being around other children
Engages in doll play, recreating nurturing of parents
15-18 Months
Interacts with new adults and children
Vocalizes to parents from a distance
18-21 Months
Constantly demands adult’s attention
Imitation and turn taking increases with peers
Knows where to put away toys in the home
21-24 Months
Alternates between clinging and resistance to familiar adults
24-27 Months
Names own and others’ possessions
Shares toys, demonstrates some prosocial behavior with peers
Retrieves objects from different parts of the home
27-30 Months
Shares toys, helps others, cooperates in games, shows empathic concern
30-33 Months
May be hesitant or shy around new people; takes time to warm up
Play may reflect sibling or parent-child relationships
33-36 Months
Associative socio-dramatic play among peers. (play together, but with different goals)
36-42 Months
Silly boisterous humor among peers and siblings
Frequent sibling rivalry and arguments
42-48 Months
Cooperative dramatic play with peers
Shows interest in being part of a group and sits in facilitated group for 20 minutes
Aware of community helpers, recognizes and identifies
48-54 Months
Monitors the emotional state of a group and children within the group
Maintains attention in group activities when interested
54-60 Months
Attempts to please peers, make friends
Participates well in groups; raises hand to talk, takes turns, listens to others
 North Carolina Department of Public Instruction, 2015
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