List of Skills by Age
1-2 Months
Stares at faces, particularly eyes and contours
2-4 Months
Responds differently to family members and strangers
4-6 Months
Distinguishes photos of family members from those of strangers
6-8 Months
May show distress when strangers are near
8-10 Months
10-12 Months
Demonstrates separation distress
Gender stereotyping not evident in toy preferences
12-15 Months
15-18 Months
Uses words “mama” and “dada” and maybe names of family members
Stares longer at persons of another race (recognizes difference)
18-21 Months
Seeks play with siblings, peers, or other familiar persons
Play and toys may be gender stereotyped
21-24 Months
Demonstrates prosocial behaviors with everyone
Recognizes and names self, family, and friends in photos
24-27 Months
Knows cultural expectations for behaviors within the family
Play may be highly gender stereotyped
27-30 Months
Plays with others in a small group of children (even if in parallel play)
30-33 Months
Demonstrates preferences for play partners
33-36 Months
36-42 Months
Prefers peer interactions to adult interactions
Follows classroom rules part of the time
Modifies language and interactions when playing with younger children
42-48 Months
Plays group games or activities without constant supervision
Plays simple board or card games with several children
Participates in circle time for 15-20 minutes
Knows the rules for home, school, and community
48-54 Months
Responsible for chores within the home/school
Responds appropriately to instructions given in a small group
Knows the rules of the household and classroom
May participate in community structured group sports or activities
54-60 Months
Names special friends in the classroom
Converses with people outside of the family and asks them questions
Demonstrates a good understanding of how to behave in different environments
 North Carolina Department of Public Instruction, 2015
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